What do I do my husband is addicted to dinning out? ?

I know this sounds like a joke question. But im dead serious My husband likes to drink so part of it is for coctails. He takes my kids and when im home out at least once a day if not 3 times At first i was discusted and even though I still hate it I go. Ive just broken down about it over the yrs. My children always get vegtables and i offer them fruit at home. Despite this I know there is a lot of hidden butter in restaurant food Both my girls 10 and 5 are slim and my husband. Ive gained 35 lbs in a yr! Plus i know were spending close to 1,000 a month. He uses every excuse hates my cooking We have roaches so wont eat at home. I had orkin solve the problem still doesnt eat at home. Im soooooo sick of this its bs for so many reasons. And my kids are totally spoiled please help